While actor Derek Luke is known for bringing the drama on the big screen, the star of 'Notorious,' 'Madea Goes To Jail' and 'Catch a Fire' lives a very normal life when he's at home with his wife, Sophia Hernandez.
The 34-year-old actor told me that married life keeps him from becoming affected by the business and has been an intricate part in him remaining humble.
"I don't get caught up in it because I remember quotes like: 'Take the garbage out! Wash the clothes! You ain't that hot,'" he laughed. "I think reality. I think marriage is there to give you a dose of reality. Part of my success is because I am married, because I was less focused when I wasn't. I didn't have anybody to answer to. But when I really thought about it, marriage was something that I really wanted to do, because I saw so many broken ones when I was a child."
Similar to statements made by Hollywood power couple Will Smith and wife Jada Pinkett Smith, Luke said that divorce is definitely not an option for him and his wife of 11 years.
"They say when a word doesn't exist, then it doesn't precede an option," he explained. "There was a guy, he was a pastor in Botswana. He was taking us on a tour of the diamond mines. He got into a discussion with one of the guys, another pastor, and he said, 'Did you know divorce doesn't exist over here?' He said, 'We don't have a word for it.' Divorce not being an option doesn't just have to be a statement, but its also creating a reality. It doesn't have to exist inside you, inside your mind, inside where you live and that's definitely a humility that I want to stick with."
This fall, New Jersey native makes his television debut in the new NBC drama 'Trauma.'
The series reunites Luke with his 'Friday Night Lights' director Peter Berg, who will serve as the executive producer on NBC's successor to 'E.R.'
Read also: 'Derek Luke: Actor Talks Tyler Perry, Going International & New Clothing Line.'
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Karrine Steffans
This 30-year-old New York Times best-selling author made a name for herself in the music industry as a music video model. After intimate relations with some of the biggest names in hip-hop, including Jay-Z, Ja Rule and Method Man, Steffans became known as "Superhead." The former adult-film star is currently working on her third book 'The Vixen Manuel: How To Find, Seduce & Keep The Man You Want.' You wouldn't believe which high-ranking officer of the court we think Steffans resembles.
Judge Glenda Hatchett
Judge Glenda Hatchett has starred on her own court television show for the past eight years. The Emory University School of Law grad also released a book 'Say What You Mean and Mean What You Say.' Before heading to television, Hatchett was a senior attorney at Delta Air Lines and the highest-ranking African American woman at the company. She also has the distinction of being Georgia's first African American chief presiding judge of a state court.
Karrine Steffans / Judge Glenda Hatchett
True, Judge Hatchett is a bit mature to pass for Steffan's sister, but they surely could be mistaken for mother and daughter. With their fair complexions, dark-brown hair, wide smiles and noses, they definitely resemble each other.
Ciara
These days, 23-year-old Ciara Princess Harris simply goes by Ciara. Raised in Atlanta, this R&B chart-topper, who once dated pint-size rapper Bow Wow, burst on the music scene in 2004 with 'Goodies.' Both her debut single and its follow-up 'Ciara: The Evolution' were platinum hits. She's currently wrapping up her new album 'Fantasy Ride' and will star in the upcoming film 'Mama, I Want to Sing.' But many have said she looks like a popular comedienne. Guess who?
Wanda Sykes
Comedienne and actress Wanda Sykes got her start as a writer for 'The Chris Rock Show.' And, though her two short-lived shows 'Wanda at Large' and 'Wanda Does It' haven't made her a television star, her more recent stint on the CBS sitcom 'The New Adventures of Old Christine' has been steady. In 2008, the stand-up comic "came out" as at a pro-gay marriage rally in Las Vegas.
Ciara / Wanda Sykes
They're not identical by any means, but Ciara and Wanda Sykes definitely favor one another. We aren't holding our breaths to see Wanda sport a dolled-up look like Ci-Ci, but with their similar noses and big brown eyes, the two ladies remind us of each other.
Iman Crosson
This 26-year-old Ohio native received a great deal of attention with his parody of President Barack Obama doing Beyonce's 'Single Ladies.' The YouTube clip 'If You Voted for Me' has scored nearly 2 million hits and landed Crosson an appearance on Entertainment Tonight. There's a certain banker who looks like the Dancing Obama. Can you take a guess?
Al Reynolds
Virginia native Al Reynolds is mostly known as the ex-husband of former plus-size talk show personality Star Jones. Their nuptials are rumored to have cost upward of $1 million dollars and became a public relations nightmare for 'The View.' Sadly, their union didn't last long. Jones filed for divorce in 2008. The former investment banker is currently finishing up his doctorate in organizational leadership and teaching at Florida Memorial University.
Iman Crosson / Al Reynolds
Talk about splitting image. It's easy to see how Iman Crosson might be mistaken for Al Reynolds over our President Barack Obama. The two light-skinned, handsome brothers both know how to hang a suit. And with such distinguished looks, if they can't pass for each other, they can pass for brothers.
Kathie Lee Gifford
Kathie Lee Gifford is best known for co-hosting the talk show 'Live with Regis and Kathie Lee,' alongside Regis Philbin for 15 years. In 2008, she returned to the small screen to host the fourth hour of NBC's 'Today' show.



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By: Jadee on 6/04/2009 12:05PM
she is one lucky woman!
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By: Shannon on 6/04/2009 3:27PM
I am very impressed. More Americans need to have this mentality! It is amazing to hear someone from Hollywood giving this kind of sound advice. I wish you both the very best!
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By: Jay on 6/04/2009 2:13PM
Wow. What a great person. Good news from the hollywood crowd.
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By: Annie on 6/04/2009 2:32PM
Finally a good and humbeling story. Wonder if there's another one just like him out there.
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By: Teresa on 6/16/2009 7:15PM
Way to go Derek Luke! If more people entered into marriage with that mindset I believe there would be certainly less divorces going on. Too many people enter into this precious covenant saying "if it doesn't work, we'll just get divorced'. That is a curse waiting to happen. I'm about to be married in a month and I'm believing the very best for my marriage and that divorce is not an option - it's work the work like anything else! God bless you.
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By: L on 6/04/2009 3:15PM
I agree that divorce shouldnt be an option but in addition to divorce not being an option the attitude of being committed to making it work should also exist. I was married to a man who would've never divorced me, but he was content to live in a marriage that was unfulfilling maintaining the status quo. Simply having someone committed to a marriage but not committed to making the marriage work is a miserable way to live. I believe the two should go hand in hand.
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By: mw on 6/04/2009 3:24PM
AWWWWW... that's totally awesome! I just became a fan..
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By: longliveanitat on 6/04/2009 4:19PM
His wife isnt black so im not impressed one bit. see how long she stays once his money is gone
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By: Animulcrayzee on 6/04/2009 4:44PM
Apparently you didn't read the whole article, it says he's been married for 11 years, which is, I think a little longer than he's been the star he is today, so it must not have been for the money. Regardless of her race, she's got herself a good man, seems you are jealous.
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By: the truth on 6/04/2009 6:15PM
Thats a crazy statement, It states that they have been married 11 yrs. He wasn't a star in 98 so she was with him before the money. Why bring negative comments into a positvie situation.
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